Losing My Travel Virginity: Guatemala

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Rachel Ward recounts being 16 , a high school cheerleader, and how life in a rural Guatemalan village changed her forever.

I read a “Jonah and the Whale” storybook in poorly pronounced Spanish as two girls in dirty school uniforms squeezed on my lap.

Another child, barefoot and wearing a wraparound morga skirt and a floral-embroidered huipil blouse, braided my hair. She occasionally paused to readjust her baby brother, who she carried slung in a shawl on her back.

We sat outside a dim classroom with a cement floor and a tin roof, filled with rows of scratched up desks. The teachers, a pair of shy women barely out of high school, stared at me.

I was 16, in a very remote, very poor Guatemalan village. I’d come as a volunteer with a group from my high school. Before that my travel experiences were limited to sunbathing at Hilton Head or waiting in line for roller coasters at Six Flags.

Most of those nights I didn’t sleep, unaccustomed to the sounds–dogfights, honking buses, and roosters. I’d wake to morning mist rising over coffee fields and men hunched under towering loads of sticks trudging up the mountains. We washed dishes in the community pila beside women balancing jars of water on their heads.

A week earlier we’d stepped out of the airport into Guatemala City. Our hosts, a Canadian missionary couple, warned us of rampant carjackings and muggings (their housekeeper had experienced the former just that week), pointing out the broken glass and barbed wire atop the walls guarding the houses.

Guatemala City. Photo: vaticanus.

They advised us to avoid the mostly teenaged, machine-gun-toting police force that guarded nearly every public building, including churches.

When we arrived to the tiny village in the Chimaltenango province, they reminded us not to use the flea-infested blankets provided in the hospedaje and to check our shoes for scorpions in the morning.

An ancient peasant woman labored over our meals, mostly involving chicken soup (various bones and unidentifiable parts floating in broth).

We ate the same beans all week, watching them evolve into a new form each day until finally she pureed them and left them out to harden into bean loaf. The other volunteers gagged, but I ate every bite, throwing away my yearlong dedication to vegetarianism.

My adaptation to our circumstances surprised the group – they’d only known me as the shy, studious cheerleader who showed up for class in heels. But I found living without a mirror liberating, ignoring the stench and grime. How could I complain when the tireless elementary students insisted on working along side of us?

When not piling rocks in buckets or stabbing makeshift hoes into the dirt with startling efficiency, the children played in the construction rubble of the new school site, clawing up mounds of dirt or see-sawing on a wooden plank they’d laid on a rock. A hazardous building site that would be blocked off by yellow caution tape in the U.S. served as their playground.


On our last afternoon, the principal, Jeremías, announced that the teachers had planned a special snack.

He led us to a circle of desks where they served us corn tortillas piled high with lettuce and beets and topped with a boiled egg.

The American high-schoolers grimaced. The adult leaders were at a loss after their constant preaching that consuming homemade food or produce washed with the parasitic local water would surely lead to miserable illness.

The missionaries “accidentally” spilled their delicacies on the grass. A girl rushed over to replenish their plates. The cooks surrounded us, staring, anxious for our approval. I, ignoring the others, began eating. How could I not?

That trip forced me to consider that while I slept in a carpeted, air-conditioned bedroom with a closet full of clothes and a stereo system, much of the world lived and died in one-room shacks with dirt floors and owned only two changes of clothing.

After sharing a glass bottle of Coke from a dusty corner tienda with a dirty faced little boy in a faded Batman T-shirt, no charter bus tour will ever satisfy me.


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About the Author

Matador ID: rward107

Rachel Ward is a freelance writer/barista who has contributed to Time Out Buenos Aires and various publications in Charleston, S.C. She’s lived in Buenos Aires, Oxford and Barcelona and will move to the Chilean coast in the spring for her next big adventure. Check out here blog at Serendipitous Senderos.

11 Comments... join the discussion!

  • Turner replied on July 16, 2009

    Very nice, Rachel. I love the last two paragraphs.

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  • Jason Policastro replied on July 16, 2009

    Cool piece. Very detailed and well written.

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  • Tim Patterson replied on July 16, 2009

    Gorgeous essay – travel can be such a profound experience for young people.

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  • Liv replied on July 16, 2009

    Very nice, Rachel. I find it impressive that you were so open-minded at such a young age.

    My father’s family is from Guatemala, but their circumstances have been very different from the one you describe. The differences in lifestyle in Guatemala are so enormous that it’s heartbreaking.

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  • Hal replied on July 16, 2009

    Very powerful

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  • joshywashington replied on July 16, 2009

    To be exposed at 16 and to have your life changed is a lucky thing indeed. I often think, if only people could get out of their sphere and see more of what human life is like in the world, then we could be a better people. And the younger the better.
    Lord Byron can be paraphrased; Don’t tell me what you have done, tell me where you have been.

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  • Jason replied on July 16, 2009

    If everyone had an experience like this, the world would be a better place, I am sure. Excellent article.

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  • Ryukyu Mike replied on July 16, 2009

    Well written and an experience all 16 year old Americans could use !

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  • Rachel replied on July 17, 2009

    Thank you all for giving my article a read. I appreciate your generous comments! Sometimes I think we should make a trip like this annually to keep life in perspective.

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  • Jared Krauss replied on July 17, 2009

    After having lived in rural Panama for a month at the age of 16 and waiting every three days to get a shower pumped in from a city 100km away, building houses into the mountain side made out of bamboo shoots, palm tree leaves and any other useful resource to be found, I can share your experience. My traveling experiences up to that date had been Cancun and Ixtapa, Miami and NYC and other such places. To see the shanties that were stacked on top of each other like mismatched legos, using tin, wood, cardboard, anything they could to construct a house, really struck me hard. Panama is a beautiful place, but also a lesson to someone like me.

    This really resonates with me. Thank you for sharing your experience.

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  • J replied on August 2, 2009

    I love this article. Partly because it was very well written, and partly because I just lost my travel virginity to Guatemala at age 16 a couple of weeks ago and many of your experiences are similar to my own. It was the most amazing time of my life. Everyone I met seemed to change my life for the better in one way or another. The people there are so sweet and amazing! Except for the police officers… they just creep me out.

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