Losing My Travel Virginity: Beijing

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Kaitlin Mills shares the moment she lost her travel virginity in Beijing.

Different people from every walk of life stuffed into a crowded plane for eight hours. Americans, Canadians, Londoners all sitting around me, the different twangs in their voices drifting over to me. I would never see them again once I stepped off the plane.

Walking through Singapore International Airport, watching guards walk past, holding machine guns high in front of their chests. My heart beating a little bit faster; unable to tear my eyes away; getting closer to something.

Getting into a taxi in Beijing, watching the country zoom past, greenery and poverty, elegant buildings next to shacks, people and possessions spilling out into the land. A sprawling college university, a town inside itself, gleaming, still newly built, next to a shanty town. The same people living their lives so completely differently with only a metre wide murky river to separate them. Watching a truck speed by, the doors wide open, people sleeping inside, people sitting there, nothing between them and the concrete dashing past.

A line of gardeners pulling out weeds all working together, their only job for the day in an overcrowded country, the same job one person could have done in an hour with a lawn mower. Five people in every aisle of the grocery store just waiting to help.

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Getting completely lost in a city with more than three million people, knowing only Ni Hao as a single bit of Mandarin. People working on a three storey construction site with no safety equipment.

Haggling in a strange mix of English and Mandarin was almost at the edge. Pushing onto a crowded bus, now no longer bothering to say sorry in a language that wouldn’t be understood. Eating a meal that would never have been touched at home.

Trying to get a rapid heartbeat under control after climbing step after step, staring out into the distance as the crumbling wall faded into the distance was close.

Calling out a greeting in Mandarin to the guy climbing on the mountain picking up litter.

That was the moment.


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Matador ID: k-a-anderson

Kaitlin Mills left Brisbane at 17 and has been trying to stay away ever since. When not traveling the world she is writing about what happened and planning the next adventure. She has recently found Europe and after standing at the top of Switzerland can’t wait to go back.

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  • Seal replied on July 21, 2009

    Despite having traveled to Europe twice before my traveling to China. China opened up a part of me I didn’t know even existed. I remember arriving- never had bargained in my life, never had looked so out of place. But, never had I felt so alive, despite my lack of everyday comforts I was used to, because even in Europe, I never really “roughed it” in the way that China really makes you rough it.

    My friends and I joked that we would return home and still be pushing through lines and crowds of people, picking off serving plates with our own utensils, and bargaining whenever we would go shopping.

    Needless to say, climbing that wall, at times shoulder to should with men and women three times my age going twice as fast as me. Finally, I stopped to take in everything, and a child ran to a hole in the wall to urinate next to me. I really couldn’t help but laugh to myself. Oh, China.

    Such an amazing experience, I can completely understand.

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  • David Miller replied on July 21, 2009

    i love this piece.

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  • Josh Johnson replied on July 21, 2009

    i love that fish-out-of-water jack rabbit heart beat thing.

    It’s like, your body is rejecting or choking on all this new sensory experience…and you feel ALIVE!

    yeah! great one Kaitlin.

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  • Kaitlin Mills replied on July 21, 2009

    Thanks. Josh you couldn’t have described it better. China is so different from everywhere I ever been and at times it I felt like screaming STOP just so I could catch up. Though even if I did it wouldn’t have been understood. Got to love it.

    Thanks Seal I felt so unfit climbing that wall especially when a lady in stilettos walked calmly past me, not a single pause in her step.

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  • Michelle replied on July 21, 2009

    Yup, that’s the feeling! Great piece!

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  • zarcher replied on July 22, 2009

    Nice post, You must had a culture shock in Beijing, Do you want to try other cities? I can help you if you want to visit Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province. ^_^

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  • Kaitlin Mills replied on July 22, 2009

    :) It was intense in BeijingI can just imagine how it was outside the major cities, must have been different that’s for sure

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  • Tom replied on August 9, 2009

    I have nothing intelligent to add, having never been to China, but great article!

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  • Kaitlin Mills replied on August 10, 2009

    Thank you. You commented that’s enough for me. :)

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